Issues

This year has for the most part began well..

Yesterday, I made ammends with a really good friend I had fallen out with..I made the first move to reconcile despite her being the one  and when everything was all out in the open and we agreed to let go of everything, it felt sooo good I tell you.

I've never really fallen out permanently with a good friend but in that short time that I had, it felt horrible..

Anyway, fast forward to today and said friend (xxx from now)kinda refused to help me out with something really important that s/he could have if s/he wanted to..So now my mood is down in the dumps..I just feel bad about it coz I'm such a real friend to some people but I dont get even half back of what I give..

Second thing, I chopped off my hair down to an inch last year December 19th..I really really liked the TWA(teeny weeny afro) on me  and so did my family..But suddenly, this feeling of 'unpretty' came over me and it's still haunting me! I got braid extensions got done almost immediately and despite the itching I battle with whenever I'm in braids, I'm gonna have these babies on my head for a long long time..unless Dear Lord sends me a bucket-full of confidence..He knows I need that! 

This whole thing is weird..I like how I look, and that's all that should matter..but I'm kinda(or verrrryyyy) worried that people at school are not gonna like it..I don't want people making jokes or talking behind my back trying to figure out why I cut it..I didn't know I was so short of confidence! The only thing that would give me enough courage to show off my new TWA at school..is..maybe an engagement ring from The One!!! lol..Then,,,people are gonna have something else to talk about!

Peace Nita xx

TIGHTS ARE NOT PANTS!!!

The post above pretty much sums it up! Lately, I've seen lots of girls committing this offense. I would love to say 'to each his own' for this one but hell no! Why should everyone have to see your privates?? Rude!
So, here is the one basic rule on wearing tights:
Refer to poster above..Whether you're wearing a long top, shirt dress, shorts, short skirt or dress, it must be long enough to cover your funnies.

A little modesty please??

abcanddreams: The letter A

abcanddreams: The letter A

The letter A

I will randomly pick my favourite things or everyday things beginning with letters of the alphabet(as it goes with my blog name!) and say something about them or let you put your own 1000 words that the picture may be worth..

A: Africa

Apart from my dad, I don't know anyone that loves being African as much as I do...Not that there aren't such people, I just haven't met them! There's so much authentic beauty in this continent, and as much as it's filled with corrupt, dumb leaders, it's still my home and I love love love it!

A: Androgyny

The Lord blessed us women with the ability to wear men's or man-looking clothes and not look 'odd'...
It's terribly comfy to have on a pair of tattered boyfriend jeans but still manage to look stylish isn't it? Maybe not in the eyes of the men themselves, but to our fellow sisters we do! And isn't that who we dress for anyway?(Deny as you may but it's true!) On the other hand, imagine your boyfriend in your pink vest..with the low neckline..with frills..No.I refuse to even go there.

A: Amber Rose

Last night I prayed before I went to sleep. I prayed for my family, My friends, My enemies and frenemies, my health, strength and overall wellbeing. And for a body just like Amber Rose. Need I say more??

Till next time! Peace and love!

abcanddreams: Beginner..

abcanddreams: Beginner..: "Yaaay, just joined the blog world..Will get to work as soon as I get a hang of it! xo"

Beginner..

Yaaay, just joined the blog world..Will get to work as soon as I get a hang of it! xo